Change your mind, how do you ask? I say by simply deciding to do so. Change your mind. Its impossible you say but no, it’s not impossible. All things are possible within you and me. The question is, do you believe it’s possible? Your belief is key. Where there isn’t any belief, there isn’t any power you see. Change your mind it’s for the best. What we create comes from our precepts. Precepts that were learned and accepted by us continue to recirculate and condemn us.  Are we living according to a new or an old belief system? Are your precepts keeping you accepting, loving and understanding or causing strife, condemnation and separation among you? If you’re in a state of unhappiness I say the latter is true.

Change your mind, undue the cruelty of unjust opinions that have been thrown at you. Change your mind and forgive. Forgiveness isn’t for the people who have caused harm to you. Forgiveness frees you from the pain that binds you. So no, forgiveness isn’t for them, it’s for you.  Change your mind, you were made perfect and your job on earth is to love and accept yourself as such knowing you are very much so deserving. The way you live and walk in your purpose is to not allow old precepts steal your joy and focus. Change your mind all things great depend on it.

Listen for the negativity your mind continues to feed you then lovingly redirect those thoughts by replacing them with positive talk. Change your mind by being aware of what it is you’re thinking about then redirect thoughts free of judgment full of acceptance and understanding. Change your mind, create happiness, the lie of being underserving is no good for you. Change your mind from the things you see and create from a state of love and peace. Change your mind from anything that doesn’t benefit to all things that do. Reflect on all things great. When you do this your awareness makes a shift from dormant to awake! The power within you begins to take over for you. Your life has begun to change and you feel a strong desire for more! No longer defeated but now you feel strong! Your focus has gone from negative to positive and all you had to do was change your mind and be diligent at it.

Changing your mind is simply another decision to go in the opposite direction.  Which direction have you decided on? For me, I have chosen to learn to understand, love and accept myself (human nature flaws and all). It definitely feels better and helps me to understand and love outside of myself much better, which in my opinion is the ultimate goal of the universe to love, accept and restore brokenness to ONE.

What have you been creating for yourself thus far? Change your mind, visualize your desires then release your wants to your Creator, you’ve now done your part; this is how you rebuild your trust in the universal flow. Change your mind from negative to positive, its not hard my friend all you need is for your intentions to be clear without judgment or doubt. Change your mind, I promise you can do it. Need some help, I’ll be glad to help you through it.

 

Detach from all expectancy. Allow people to be who they are. Every individual is on their own path of evolution.

When we allow ourselves and other people to freely be themselves while offering acceptance of individuals or circumstances; We do one of the two: 1. Grow in love.  2. Separate in love.

When we decide to grow together in love, relationships and circumstances bring the best out of us, not the worst. Growing in love, we realize there is a continual effort to build one another as well as the relationship. All parties are aware of this and equally participate in the growth of themselves, their relationships and others. There is lightness of flow, happiness that stems from the heart and a willingness to give without expectancy. The relationships provide peace, harmony and unity. The choice to walk in love has been made the key priority.

When we decide to separate in love, we acknowledge the fact that we are not good for one another. The situations or circumstances breed anxiety and fear. The relationship does not promote growth or embody love. There is constant discord and the unwillingness to compromise beyond oneself. Criticism, attack and blame seem constant. However, we don’t judge ourselves or the other parties involved. There is no blame necessary, as we have all played our parts.  The good. The bad. The ugly. We are aware and simply decide we are better off apart, well wishes given. No malice, hatred or bitterness felt. We separate in love, while allowing true fruitfulness of love to take form for others and ourselves.

Awareness of either choice is key. Remember there’s always an effortless flow to what’s supposed to be. In order to allow that flow, you’ve got to move yourself out the way and allow our Creator to dictate what relationships and or circumstances come and go for us. When we allow, we then enable freedom that offers a detachment to the outcomes we have formed for ourselves within. We then no longer feel the need to dictate or control how things take place or unfold outside of us. We simply allow and place our entire expectancy on our Creator, never on a circumstance or an individual.

Decide to make the choice to remain aware our own internal compass, our own continual growth. Decide to allow things to take shape naturally. Decide to drop feelings of animosity, blame and bitterness. As all these emotions come from an unwillingness of acceptance, to what we think or how we feel things should have been. When we attempt to control the outcome of circumstances or relationships we imprison ourselves emotionally and mentally.

    Let go. Be fee. Allow others to do the same damn thing. Repeat! 

 

 

 

 

 

 

How do I not take offense when I am filled with words, actions and thoughts from the past? How do I learn to love, when the life I have lived, so full of abandonment, addictions and at times even hatred from those who claim to love and support me throughout my existence? What was the meaning of the experiences after all? To avoid love or live in pain either choice is one in the same.

How do I continue to do what’s right – I’ve been taught that life is supposed to be a fight. Now I see I have been misguided, entirely. God said his yoke was easy to carry, burdens light. So why do I feel as though I need to fight? I don’t actually. There aren’t any fights other then the wars created within me, stemming from negative thoughts I have decided to carry.  If I simply let it all go would there be any controversy, it simply would not be.

How and why do I fight to remain in control, control of everything outside of me? I realize this type of thinking is pure insanity. We are to work on things we can change; allow the rest to take form and be shaped by life’s universal energy. So what can I actually control? I can control me! I decide to take control by deciding not to focus on or judge things that’s happening outside of me, but instead do my part to transform my current version of reality. But how to do that is the key and that is to begin by transforming thoughts of fear, anger and hatred to acceptance, freedom and genuine trust in my creator.

I am aware that this type of trust that I speak of can only come from my spirit, my heart. I can control my emotions based on what my spirit tells me, not what my mind thinks it knows. I can control who and what I allow to affect my energy. This is where my work is to be done.

How do I remain true to who I know myself to be, if every person around me is trying to change and shape me into what they want me to be? After all, we were born to be unique, grow into whom we were born to be, a magnificent masterpiece filled with an abundance of love given to circulate more of.

The Lesson: Learn to love in order to dim the pain. Hurt people generally hurt other people way more then they likely know. Love trumps hate but very few people practice love, but would rather argue, disagree and make that their ultimate truth. Closing off to their core, their nature and this is to love, unite and create abundance of everything desirable, everything lovable, everything true within you.

Fact is this – until we change the cycle of hatred, anger and violence we recreate what we hate, as opposed to putting out flames by deviating from the fuel that adds to the flame.  In order to produce what I love, I’ll simply make the shift from the insanity of trying to control things outside of me to working on what’s inside of me and putting on God’s armor daily! (Ephesians 6:10-18 (NIV)

 Your value can never be decreased based on someone else’s inability to see it.

Start your day in gratitude while also giving thanks for your very existence, understand and know you are a miracle and you’re here on this earth for a reason. When we start our day in gratitude life has a way of giving, providing more of and showing us more to be grateful for throughout the day. It’s sort of like a domino effect; how we start our day is usually the precursor to the rest of our day. Appreciation and gratitude leads to unsurpassed happiness, which in turn boosts your confidence, go ahead and try it!

Be aware of the thoughts that circulate, as this is a big contribution to the ill will feelings we harbor. Due to our constant need to evaluate characteristics, accomplishments and what we view as failures for ourselves as well as others. Reflect on things you like about yourself as well as things you do well. Make mental notes (visualize) and set goals to work on anything you have the ability to change. Focus on your goodness. Throw out all the nonsense that stems from negative opinions, even your own.

Never compare yourself or life situations to or with anyone else, you’re not them and they’re not you and there’s a big reason for that too! Just think there is nobody on this planet with the same DNA makeup as you, nobody who can smile exactly as you do. There’s nobody and I mean nobody that has the voice you do, or even touches the way that you do! There is confidence in itself knowing there isn’t anyone on this entire universe that can be YOU! Spend time each day learning and growing into the beautiful being in you, that is you while learning who you truly were made to be.

Know without a shadow of a doubt that there isn’t anything that needs to be added or taken away from you because you were made exactly how you were supposed to be, You. We are born whole, lacking nothing and given everything we need to function in this life, accordingly. All else are mere things we acquire based on perceived desired needs.

Be kind to, accept and appreciate the soul, body, mind and emotions you’ve been given. Never focus on what you think you don’t have enough of, and I mean on any level.  Understand that your uniqueness is what makes you, why try to be somebody you’re not so others can accept you; fact is you don’t have to. Accept and love wholeheartedly your individuality. You came to this world exactly how you were meant to be and the #1 rule is accepting that fact entirely. Love who you are, accept and appreciate the journey because you darling, are a One of   a Kind, Confident Masterpiece!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

How far our power goes depends on what we choose to think, feel and meditate on. These emotions align with the forces of the universe, which in turn deliver the creations that we’ve decided on. Good, bad it really makes know difference. We will receive what we believe whole-heartedly and this is one of life’s laws. (Isaiah 59:21)

We are multidimensional beings. We aid in creation but don’t hold the power to dictate how it comes into fruition. When we are creating we are creating out of love or out of fear, the two never coincide. Here is how to discern the differences in the two and to determine what it is you have been creating for yourself and the impact it has on others around you.

When we create out of fear we are telling the universe we aren’t enough and to throw at us, what it wills. When we create out of fear we are often double minded, confused and unable to make solid decisions. This implies lack of vision and we all know from the good book, when we lack vision, we parish (Proverbs 29:18). If we feel incomplete and lack, we begin chasing external things to feed the soul. This will always leave us feeling empty inside. Always. When we create in fear we attract people, places and situations that drain us. When we create in fear we encounter people that don’t have our best interest at heart. When we create in fear we are not using our power; we often play the victim role. When we create in fear we walk in doom, one thing after another. We now feel powerless and often wonder what’s the point of it all. But get this – you can turn away from creating a life of fear, into a life that provides and promote a life you love.

Its when we align our mind, emotions and will according to the divine plan is when we feel whole, happy, complete and at peace. When we create in love, we are hopeful and optimistic for all. When we create in love we know longer have to seek externally. When we create in love, we love what we have as we are grateful souls. When we create in love there isn’t any resistance, things flow naturally there’s know need to question. When we create in love we have a sense of solid protection, we know that no weapons formed against us shall prosper, ever (Isaiah 54:17). When we create out of love we embody confidence, joyfulness and creativity that brings wisdom, passion and excitement to all who encounter us. When we create in love we create acceptance and unity. Being in full acceptance of our own works is key to living happily.  But how can we be in acceptance of our works if they promote fear, lack and inequity? Therefore pay attention to how you treat yourself as well as other beings equally.

Be authentic. Be honest. Pay attention to what surrounds you. Remain in awareness of what thoughts are feeding you. It’s when we are in touch with our perfect, limitless existence that we begin to recognize and atone for our misguided focus of attention. We lose our power to create positively when our perceptions are altered. Let me be clear, all things created in fear is false and keeps us living a life of despair.

Once that shift of awareness takes place so does the way we create! We then begin operating in love, instead of fear and hate; this now causes us to walk away from all things false and into what’s true. Your ability to see things clearly has risen for you! It’s as if your eyes have just been open! Your ability to create magically now takes place and presents itself in physical forms. People, places and situations are now working with you, not against you. You’re now living a life you love, not one you hate. The universe now supports you and begins to bring you what fills your core, not only individually but also universally! Now, lets take back our power and choose to see things through lenses of love when we create, as this is, how far our power actually goes.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Lie. Cheat. Master Manipulator. You wreak havoc with your constant infidelities. Your actions indirectly cause me to question my worthiness, my appearance and at times the point of my existence. I start to walk in fear. Do you love me? Will you be there? What have I done to cause this outpour of rejection bestowed upon me? When questions like this begin to plague me, we’ve run our course. We are not meant to be.

Boy Bye!

You want sex, hot meals and flawed skin on demand. A home kept clean and nice, quiet and comfortable when you get home. Rub your back; raise the kids; hold you down but never did you truly intend to make this house our home. Do you invest your fidelity, energy and time? Can I call on you to be there for me, when it’s my time to be in need? Or will you simply offer empty excuses as to why you couldn’t be?

Boy Bye!

When trials come to test integrity, honesty and loyalty, you know the characteristics you only intend to receive; you fail each time, resorting to phony apologies and fake tears. But trust, that karma can definitely be a bitch! You’ll soon see how it feels to be with someone who embodies self-interest and deceit. I know longer fall victim to your manipulation tactics, I guess it was fun for you while it lasted.

Boy Bye!

Why is it that you tell me, you can’t stand the thought of another being loved by me? Yet, you’re the one who seems to cause the most harm to me. Have you truly loved me unconditionally? So busy looking at what it takes to give instead of realizing all you had to gain in me. I doubt that you actually took the time to get to know me. I’m starting to see that you came not to give, but only to take which will only suck the life out of me. Now you know I won’t just sit back and allow such foolery to be done to me. One day, you’ll realize and see what you’ve lost when you betrayed me.

Boy bye!

Now don’t get me wrong, I’m not mad or bitter. In loving you, I have learned how to love and value me so much better! You have taught me exactly what I don’t want for me, things I won’t accept from, or for myself because I know better. Had I not come across you, I wouldn’t know how to properly value individuals who actually do tell the truth. I now see how important it is to value myself first, above all else. In doing so I can properly discern individuals, who genuinely respect, love and care for me unselfishly. Thanks to you, I was able to witness what the absence of truth will do.

Boy Bye!

In the bible, the book of Genesis depicts a story of God’s creation of the beginning of time. Heaven and earth was made, the creation of man, woman and all living things. The Garden of Eden, Eden also means the presence of God, tells a story regarding the temptation the serpent brought to Adam and Eve in God’s creation of paradise. Now, the serpent, which according to the dictionary is known as a large snake or could also mean a sly or treacherous person, especially one who exploits a position of trust in order to betray it.

What’s most prevalent to me is when the serpent deceives Eve to believe the instruction given by God, she should supersede. In fact, the serpent goes on to tell Eve, she would be smarter and more “like God” if she did the opposite of what God told her to do, which is not eat from this forbidden fruit tree. Not only did she eat from this forbidden tree, she then convinced her counterpart to do the exact same thing. Although the story in the bible is said to have occurred eons ago, the same cycle is still occurring today. Has modern society become the new age Adam and Eve? I’d like to take you back into biblical times just to give a simpler understanding to what occurred then and how it connects us to the lives we all live now.

Just picture it, the beauty of colorful trees and leaves, the bright blue sky and vibrant colors of flowers and green grass. A place of indefinite serenity, happiness and unity! The freedom to be fruitful and multiply, a life of order; Heaven on earth with direct access to your Creator, it was perfect! Then imagine having life, as you know it, stolen. That’s what happens to us when we choose to believe the lies of the serpent. That’s also what happened to Adam and Eve, just read and see.

Adam and Eve dwelled in the Garden of Eden, meaning they dwelled in the presence of God until the serpent (devil, enemy, ego) came and convinced them to eat of the tree of what’s good and evil (judgment). Adam and Eve had been given specific instruction from God “You are free to eat from any tree in the garden; 17 but you must not eat from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, for when you eat from it you will certainly die.” (Genesis 2:15-17) However the serpent came to her with deceptive temptation and said, “You will not certainly die,” the serpent said to the woman. “For God knows that when you eat from it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.”(Genesis 3:4-5) and boom, just like that she had been deceived, her life and Adam’s, stolen. (Genesis 3:12-13Have you eaten from the tree that I commanded you not to eat from?”12 The man said, “The woman you put here with me—she gave me some fruit from the tree, and I ate it.”13 Then the Lord God said to the woman, “What is this you have done?” The woman said, “The serpent deceived me, and I ate.”)

Once they ate of this tree, they began to see things differently. They now felt they had enough wisdom to judge accordingly. Then moment Adam and Eve judged what they perceived things to be, after eating from this Knowledge of Good and Bad tree their perception of life, themselves and God had changed from a limitless life, lacking in nothing to fear and adversity. After all how would they be able to judge accordingly, when they were not the creators of this Knowledge of Good and Bad tree? The enemy was able to deceive. Now Adam and Eve feel fear and hide from God, creating a false illusion of separation and anxiety. Eating fruit from the forbidden tree caused them to judge and forget their true God given destiny. Before this serpent came and deceived, they saw themselves and their lives whole, perfect and complete.

Eyes that once saw beauty now see imperfection, insecurity, and feel a false sense of rejection. The plan to steal, kill and destroy has begun to arise and take form. Realizing that you shouldn’t have eaten from this tree, shame and guilt is now causing you to flee and turn away from the very source that gave you life abundantly. (Genesis 3:10 -12 He answered, “I heard you in the garden, and I was afraid because I was naked; so I hid.”11 And he said, “Who told you that you were naked?)

We have all been given a God given destiny of pure limitless perfection. We lack in nothing! The story of Adam and Eve is a depiction of all the sons and daughters of God being deceived daily to believe we aren’t enough, don’t have enough, aren’t pretty, funny, or whatever it may be – it’s a lie! We are also deceived to believe we know enough about a person, situation or justice or injustice to place judgment. Fact is we don’t. We do not see all nor will we ever know all, God is the only creator, therefore the only judge. God made you perfectly anything to the contrary is a lie of the enemy. Let’s simply agree we aren’t the creators of the world we see. Lets turn away from all judgment and banish separation and conformity. Make the choice to return to our God given destiny, whole, perfect and complete and stay far away from that damn Knowledge of Good and Bad tree!