Your value can never be decreased based on someone else’s inability to see it.

Start your day in gratitude while also giving thanks for your very existence, understand and know you are a miracle and you’re here on this earth for a reason. When we start our day in gratitude life has a way of giving, providing more of and showing us more to be grateful for throughout the day. It’s sort of like a domino effect; how we start our day is usually the precursor to the rest of our day. Appreciation and gratitude leads to unsurpassed happiness, which in turn boosts your confidence, go ahead and try it!

Be aware of the thoughts that circulate, as this is a big contribution to the ill will feelings we harbor. Due to our constant need to evaluate characteristics, accomplishments and what we view as failures for ourselves as well as others. Reflect on things you like about yourself as well as things you do well. Make mental notes (visualize) and set goals to work on anything you have the ability to change. Focus on your goodness. Throw out all the nonsense that stems from negative opinions, even your own.

Never compare yourself or life situations to or with anyone else, you’re not them and they’re not you and there’s a big reason for that too! Just think there is nobody on this planet with the same DNA makeup as you, nobody who can smile exactly as you do. There’s nobody and I mean nobody that has the voice you do, or even touches the way that you do! There is confidence in itself knowing there isn’t anyone on this entire universe that can be YOU! Spend time each day learning and growing into the beautiful being in you, that is you while learning who you truly were made to be.

Know without a shadow of a doubt that there isn’t anything that needs to be added or taken away from you because you were made exactly how you were supposed to be, You. We are born whole, lacking nothing and given everything we need to function in this life, accordingly. All else are mere things we acquire based on perceived desired needs.

Be kind to, accept and appreciate the soul, body, mind and emotions you’ve been given. Never focus on what you think you don’t have enough of, and I mean on any level.  Understand that your uniqueness is what makes you, why try to be somebody you’re not so others can accept you; fact is you don’t have to. Accept and love wholeheartedly your individuality. You came to this world exactly how you were meant to be and the #1 rule is accepting that fact entirely. Love who you are, accept and appreciate the journey because you darling, are a One of   a Kind, Confident Masterpiece!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

How far our power goes depends on what we choose to think, feel and meditate on. These emotions align with the forces of the universe, which in turn deliver the creations that we’ve decided on. Good, bad it really makes know difference. We will receive what we believe whole-heartedly and this is one of life’s laws. (Isaiah 59:21)

We are multidimensional beings. We aid in creation but don’t hold the power to dictate how it comes into fruition. When we are creating we are creating out of love or out of fear, the two never coincide. Here is how to discern the differences in the two and to determine what it is you have been creating for yourself and the impact it has on others around you.

When we create out of fear we are telling the universe we aren’t enough and to throw at us, what it wills. When we create out of fear we are often double minded, confused and unable to make solid decisions. This implies lack of vision and we all know from the good book, when we lack vision, we parish (Proverbs 29:18). If we feel incomplete and lack, we begin chasing external things to feed the soul. This will always leave us feeling empty inside. Always. When we create in fear we attract people, places and situations that drain us. When we create in fear we encounter people that don’t have our best interest at heart. When we create in fear we are not using our power; we often play the victim role. When we create in fear we walk in doom, one thing after another. We now feel powerless and often wonder what’s the point of it all. But get this – you can turn away from creating a life of fear, into a life that provides and promote a life you love.

Its when we align our mind, emotions and will according to the divine plan is when we feel whole, happy, complete and at peace. When we create in love, we are hopeful and optimistic for all. When we create in love we know longer have to seek externally. When we create in love, we love what we have as we are grateful souls. When we create in love there isn’t any resistance, things flow naturally there’s know need to question. When we create in love we have a sense of solid protection, we know that no weapons formed against us shall prosper, ever (Isaiah 54:17). When we create out of love we embody confidence, joyfulness and creativity that brings wisdom, passion and excitement to all who encounter us. When we create in love we create acceptance and unity. Being in full acceptance of our own works is key to living happily.  But how can we be in acceptance of our works if they promote fear, lack and inequity? Therefore pay attention to how you treat yourself as well as other beings equally.

Be authentic. Be honest. Pay attention to what surrounds you. Remain in awareness of what thoughts are feeding you. It’s when we are in touch with our perfect, limitless existence that we begin to recognize and atone for our misguided focus of attention. We lose our power to create positively when our perceptions are altered. Let me be clear, all things created in fear is false and keeps us living a life of despair.

Once that shift of awareness takes place so does the way we create! We then begin operating in love, instead of fear and hate; this now causes us to walk away from all things false and into what’s true. Your ability to see things clearly has risen for you! It’s as if your eyes have just been open! Your ability to create magically now takes place and presents itself in physical forms. People, places and situations are now working with you, not against you. You’re now living a life you love, not one you hate. The universe now supports you and begins to bring you what fills your core, not only individually but also universally! Now, lets take back our power and choose to see things through lenses of love when we create, as this is, how far our power actually goes.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

In the beginning, it was finished! God did what He was going do for all of us already. God created Heaven and Earth, sent Jesus to bare witness and die for our sins, raised Him up on the third day that who ever might believe may always live!!! God has also sent many other spiritual teachers who held similar messages of peace, stillness and acceptance but it is now up to us to live and bear witness, when will we get this? We all hold the power to do this!! The grace and mercy offered is limitless. It is our responsibility to create a life of fruitfulness and vitality; thank goodness our power is limitless!

We have the power to make anything take form, that’s the power God placed within us all! Yet and still we sit and wait for some kind of outer direction to take form. What is it that your heart is telling you? De-clutter you mind, sit in stillness and see what you’ll find – that internal compass you’d always been searching for is in fact inside. Your opinion and mental concepts is what separates you from your direction and ultimately causes more confusion. How will you ever trust which way to go if you continue to seek what your mental conditioning or concepts have to tell you? Your mind tells you all sorts of things, may even make you think its protecting you but fact is, it’s God, the Universe that has your back, not your mental concepts of heavily misrepresented facts.

This world has been going on for centuries and will continue to do so after you and me so do you really think our opinions hold that much validity? Why do we hold our opinions so dear to our hearts as if we are the ones who dictate how other people play their parts? God is the very flow of all that’s known and unknown. Our mind is limited to our perceptions based on a convoluted history, which happens to be what currently feeds our mental concepts and current reality. We sit and analyze all that we think is wrong, but who are we to say what’s right and what’s wrong. Why do you think the bible stresses the fact to judge NOT? Judgment clutters our mind and hardens our hearts. In order to be free and allow spirit to flow – quiet the mind and listen with your heart.

 

 

Negative vibrations instantly attract negative situations and circumstances which therefore make it entirely difficult to produce anything to the contrary. These low vibration frequencies make your days seem like hell. Always running late, argument after argument, poor spending habits, feelings of defeat, looking for constant outside stimuli, depression etc. Likewise higher vibrations attract like situations and produce feelings of joy, peace, meaningful relationships, creativity, a clear mind and heart, happiness, abundance etc. Higher vibrations attract greatness, power and growth, lower vibrations attract lack, stagnation and defeat. Ask yourself what frequency are you vibrating on?

Self Love ~ Give Love ~ Repeat

I never understood why people viewed break ups as a bad thing, oftentimes painful but, not bad. If we didn’t have so called bad relationships that lead to our painful break ups we definitely wouldn’t know and understand how to appreciate and honor the good ones. I say that to say this: Love should never be manipulated as a false sense of an identity to attain but instead love and relation is meant to be given freely, without expectancy or material gain; Love doesn’t cause us to classify, its meant to combine us instead. True love unites us, liberates us and makes us feel free to be who we are comfortably! That’s what true love feels like, indeed!!

Are we giving unconditionally in our relationships or have we just been giving of ourselves, secretly waiting to receive? Do you find yourself doing acts of love but becoming irritated when the gesture isn’t reciprocated? How about attention seeking and when your attempts are seemingly unnoticed you shut down, attack or even place blame. We then start to believe it’s not us, oh no! It’s just that our spouse lacks the ability to give us time, attention and love, the way we want. Do you find yourself giving and then taking away when an outcome didn’t go your way? If this sounds like you, forgive yourself and decide to develop a healthier approach at meeting the needs of yourself.

The examples mentioned above are examples of emotional manipulation and attempts of the Ego’s desires to change the behavior of your spouse in order to advance ones own personal self-interests. This behavior usually always leads to the demise of a relationship, also called the break up. When we seek to control another we destroy the free spirit nature that’s in all of us. Control always leads to ruin. We have all been guilty of this type of manipulation at one point in our lives or another, don’t self-loathe, just do better. I know this isn’t the type of love we wish to receive so let’s not make it the type of love we seek to entertain. Emotional manipulation isn’t an act of love; it’s just empty attempts to fill the Ego’s feelings of lack and discontentment.

The Ego begins to attack and the break up inevitably begins to take place. The person we claim to love has now become a participant in our ego’s destructive game, which is the link behind the pain. If we go through life looking for people to meet our needs, make us happy, provide our entertainment and so on, we will go through life looking at break up after break up. Why is that you ask, because we have begun to expect that our spouse’s become in charge of our happiness, joys, pains even our sorrows. People “break up” when they fail to get the other person to meet their internal and or external needs. People break up when they feel the other person could no longer make “me” happy or failed to keep “me” entertained; We often refer to those partners as being “just too boring”, its always one thing they lack or another if you let your Ego tell it.

When the Ego’s attempts fail as they normally do, at getting our spouses to do what we want them to, resentment, separation and blame begin to take form. We begin to feel a false sense of isolation, which stems from shame; the shame usually comes from the blind attack we aimed at the spouse we claim to love to begin with, all while becoming blinded to our true identity, which is ultimately the very love that we continue to seek.

We cannot place unrealistic goals on our spouses when we are the only authority in control of our emotional stability. Are we now becoming blind to the fact that we are responsible for our own happiness and also its sustainability, another human being can merely add to it but never can they create our ability to maintain it.

When we decide to give our power to sustain our own emotional well being to someone else, we have decided to become a light switch so to speak. We have given our spouses the power to turn us on and off. When our spouses do and act according to how we think they should, we are happy. When they don’t, we are unhappy and then begin to place blame and judgment based on unrealistic expectancy. Why would we give authority and place that type of responsibility on our mates in the first place, should be the real issue of debate.

 

 

 

What do relationships mean anyway? Nowadays it tends to mean I become you and you become me. We have to want and do the same things or it seems to become a little strange. No longer holding my own identity. I’m lost in you. You’re lost in me.

Do relationships mean I now need to prove myself worthy, while you suddenly become the judge of me? How do I spend my time? What can I offer you? What have my accomplishments been? What kind of money do I spend, but at the end of the day how will those things make your heart mend?

To be in a relationship is about knowing what I can offer while being open and upfront about it. To be in a relationship is to provide truth, freedom and acceptance to one another. Relationships requires sacrifice and commitment in spite of indifference. The sacrifice of time, unconditional love, ability to compromise, without losing oneself is what a healthy relationship is all about.

To be in a relationship isn’t for me to try to make you understand me. Relationships established in love will seek to understand, not seek to be heard and this is something that happens naturally. Relationships are to offer freedom to be uniquely you; it’s to accept you as you are with what you have; you do the same for me.

Relationships have turned into misuse and abuse as well as what I can buy for you. It takes true character to remain loyal, centered and unbothered. Relationships based on control, phony smiles, bank figures and credit scores leaves you feeling empty while the search for more continues.

Keeping up with the Jones’, talking behind ones back, are stepping stones to misery. Putting on an image for naysayers and people who have the same issues, this is nonsense, I tell you! This isn’t just about spouses, but all relationships. Unless the relationship is healthy and uplifting to the spirit, stay in your personal space. Live life peacefully and authentically.

Healthy relationships include acceptance, understanding, compassion and mutuality. Relation means I see you in me; therefore I am not able to view your weaknesses as my controversy. But, an entryway for growth instead. Relation means I have decided to see the goodness in you in spite of what everybody else has said. Relation means I don’t take offense and view you as my enemy but my friend, someone who has been misunderstood. Relation means to decide to let ego go, seek to understand and practice love.

The church didn’t tell you that you are perfect in spite of worldly view imperfections. The church didn’t tell you to allow this moment to take place in spite of religious misconceptions. The church didn’t tell you to love and accept your self as is. Instead the church told you to hate sin and if not, your love to God is in vain.

What the church didn’t tell you is that God accepts you, no matter what your inner demons tell you. The church didn’t tell you, we are all apart of generational curses that stem back to Adam and Eve, the Romans and the Catholics, the Slaves and the Masters. This is why Jesus came to let you know that your sins were covered by His blood and not by your actions.

The church didn’t tell you to allow yourself freedom, honor, value and love of yourself, no matter your battles and in doing this is how you ultimately go and sin no more in this spiritual battle. (John 8:10-11 Then Jesus straightened up and asked her, “Woman, where are your accusers? Has no one condemned you?” 11“No one, Lord,” she answered. “Neither do I condemn you, Jesus declared. “Now” go and sin no more.) The sin is the condemning of oneself and others. The sin is in the separation and hate. The sin is in lack of love for God, by not loving ourselves, others and all of God’s creation – this is SIN.

The first commandment in the bible is this, 37Jesus declared, “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’ 38 This is the first and greatest commandment. 39And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ 40 All the Law and the Prophets depend on these two commandments.” (Matthew 22:37-40) If the first commandment is love and the second commandment is love why do we hate the sin instead of loving the person and in loving the person, the sin has no choice but to flee, go away. You have already won a victory over those people, because the Spirit who lives in you is greater than the spirit who lives in the world (1 John 4:4) We have already won the victory over sin. Its already been done. It was finished with Christ. The enemy wants us to lose focus on that fact and fuel the hatred of sin in order to create more of it.

Hate isn’t in any of the first two commandments or any commandment for that matter and the reason is this. Love transmutes everything negative, everything bad, everything evil. Everything not from God can and will be transmuted through love and love alone, this is the reason for our creation; to know, live and understand this fact.

YOU are not a sinner. YOU are a child of the Most High God! You were born into sin and the sin you were born into has been trying to make you forget your perfection since the day you’ve been born. The reason for this is to try to stop Gods plan for you in this world. If you forget who you are in God, which is perfect, you will start to believe you are cut off from the flow of life, if you believe this lie, the enemy has won at stealing, killing and destroying the Master’s plan for your life.

God said, His people parish from lack of wisdom, lack of wisdom is forgetting who you are in Christ; When we forget, we separate, we parish. (Hosea 4:6 My people are being destroyed because they don’t know me.) The church has allowed us to believe we can change ourselves if we believe in a God outside of ourselves. This isn’t the truth. The church has turned our people into slaves of self-hatred and to seek worldviews, money, plastic surgery, businesses and the fame, using people instead of things. And while all of this is being done the church sits back and turns their noses up. Where is the unity and power in that! Are we gaining the whole wide world and losing our souls?? (Mark 8:36)

The power is in God, not our works, people and clearly not in the church (alone). Our works gain the Master’s power through our awareness of stillness and acceptance of the God that’s within us; this is where our power truly stems from. The church told us to pray, and this is definitely a good start but what the church left out is we pray, then release and go about our day. We can’t hold on to our future gains or past mistakes and expect victory to take place. In our presence, in the stillness and quietness of our mind is when God is in charge of our inner state.

The church advised to accept Jesus as your Lord, your Savior but did the church tell you, you too are already one with your creator? The church had us thinking when we so called commit unfavorable acts God, our family, peers; the world simply doesn’t accept us. They tell us, we are doomed to hell and will never be apart of the Master’s plan where heaven prevails. If we begin to accept this as fact, take it on as our truth, we begin to separate from the power of God, which fuels our real inner truth. In that you’ve exercised your free will for the enemy to succeed. The enemy’s plan is to steal, kill, destroy in other words make you feel bad, worthless, a failure, will you allow the enemy’s plan to succeed?

Of course not, we are here to expose the wicked ways of the enemy of this world. The enemy is now being exposed. The trick of the enemy tries to separate us from oneness of self, oneness with Christ by making us believe our acts have separated us but its not our acts, its our hearts; Our hearts become hard when we don’t like God, ourselves and others; It’s the sin that God despises, not the sons and daughters (men and woman of God). If we live our lives in our heads rather than our hearts we are not doing our parts and can no longer be present enough to feel the fullness of joy, peace and love that’s within our hearts. Stop listening to the enemy’s lies, you are perfect, you are alive and yes, there is a plan for your life.

The church didn’t tell you the greatest sin is this; to forget you are perfect, valued and loved in spite of failed attempts; at what you thought God’s version of perfection is. Allow God to perfect what needs to be perfected, but God can only do this when you’ve accepted and loved yourself as is, you’ve already been perfected. Accept and allow God to come in and take full control, in doing that is where you’re freedom will truly begin to unfold.