Your value can never be decreased based on someone else’s inability to see it.

Start your day in gratitude while also giving thanks for your very existence, understand and know you are a miracle and you’re here on this earth for a reason. When we start our day in gratitude life has a way of giving, providing more of and showing us more to be grateful for throughout the day. It’s sort of like a domino effect; how we start our day is usually the precursor to the rest of our day. Appreciation and gratitude leads to unsurpassed happiness, which in turn boosts your confidence, go ahead and try it!

Be aware of the thoughts that circulate, as this is a big contribution to the ill will feelings we harbor. Due to our constant need to evaluate characteristics, accomplishments and what we view as failures for ourselves as well as others. Reflect on things you like about yourself as well as things you do well. Make mental notes (visualize) and set goals to work on anything you have the ability to change. Focus on your goodness. Throw out all the nonsense that stems from negative opinions, even your own.

Never compare yourself or life situations to or with anyone else, you’re not them and they’re not you and there’s a big reason for that too! Just think there is nobody on this planet with the same DNA makeup as you, nobody who can smile exactly as you do. There’s nobody and I mean nobody that has the voice you do, or even touches the way that you do! There is confidence in itself knowing there isn’t anyone on this entire universe that can be YOU! Spend time each day learning and growing into the beautiful being in you, that is you while learning who you truly were made to be.

Know without a shadow of a doubt that there isn’t anything that needs to be added or taken away from you because you were made exactly how you were supposed to be, You. We are born whole, lacking nothing and given everything we need to function in this life, accordingly. All else are mere things we acquire based on perceived desired needs.

Be kind to, accept and appreciate the soul, body, mind and emotions you’ve been given. Never focus on what you think you don’t have enough of, and I mean on any level.  Understand that your uniqueness is what makes you, why try to be somebody you’re not so others can accept you; fact is you don’t have to. Accept and love wholeheartedly your individuality. You came to this world exactly how you were meant to be and the #1 rule is accepting that fact entirely. Love who you are, accept and appreciate the journey because you darling, are a One of   a Kind, Confident Masterpiece!












God I apologize to you. I apologize for not totally understanding, therefore turning away from you. I now understand my duty to be still and know that I AM You. (Ezekiel 36:27 (NIV) And I will put my Spirit in you and move you to follow my decrees….) God I apologize for being wise on my own accord. I apologize God for accepting the labels and judgments of this world; when you specifically said turn away from it all. (Romans 12:2 (NIV) Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.)

When I got lost, I started creating my own will. A will separate from yours however, I would sometimes ask, how are You in control? I was so lost and fueled with darkness, I wasn’t sure I’d find my way back to your true essence of lightness. Thank you God, that now I am true, I promise to obey by staying present with You. Allowing you to move in me, through my presence of you within me. After all this is what I know to do, you said Be Still and Know that its YOU! (Psalm 46:10 (NIV) He says, “Be still, and know that I am God; I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth.”) I will now turn away from my mind, and follow you through my heart, after all this is Your true design. (Proverbs 4:23 (NIV) Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.)

You’ve designed a world full of love, yet I was on a journey that led away from that love. I was on a road of continuous thoughts, which clearly led to more damage of the heart. Turning away from the design that leads to life. Now that I am wise in YOU, it is my life’s duty to remain attached to what’s true. This truth – I AM the truth, the way and the life in You. (John 14:6 (NIV) Jesus answered, “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.) I AM is in me and in you! Nothing could ever give me more joy and now it is my duty to share your true design with the world. Careful to remain humble and true to you, realizing, that I am nothing without you.

You are the very essence of life, which is why it’s so vital to stay connected to You. Your design and duty of us all; to restore a world of peace and joy and now it’s my true desire to help bring that truth to be. God I know longer blame You, or anyone else who has come from you. I understand how like me, they were lost too. God you are amazing, I know it personally to be true. I do understand the importance of my connection to you.

The only way to remain connected to you is to be aware, by allowing my mind to stay clear, which will enable the flow from You to me, to always be clear. I cannot continue to cloud my mind, which fills my heart with anything other, then practices that stem from my heart. Practices of acceptance, peace and love. This is our true connection to the One above, the One who transcends fear and practices of hate that has at one time swallowed us all. My practice of awareness allows you to remain in full control.

I know understand in order for you to do this, I have to lose me. Lose the labels that both the world and myself, has placed on me. Labels were both good and bad, however they held no merit to the true life to be had. God, I apologize to you, I do. Now that I have recognized my own faults, I can fully see the true beauty in You and that enables me to see the beauty in all your creations too! I now live a life that’s pleasing and acceptable to You. God, I love you and thank you for loving me too!


When I tell you I love you it means, I see YOU. I see past your hurt, confusion and fear. When I tell you I love you it means I want to see you at your best, so no, I won’t expose your fears. When I tell you I love you, I won’t judge, criticize or condemn, when I tell you I love you, I am the epitome of your best friend. Your flaw, faults and actions won’t be judged but taken as opportunities to heal the negativity that’s been drilled into you. Drilled in by your parents, friends, the world me live in, see I understand that all too well which is why when I say I love you – I do.

When I tell you I love you, my desire and intent is to help heal you, never to hurt you. When I tell you I love you it means I see the God in you. When I tell you I love you, it is my desire to see you grow. When I tell you I love you, I will never truly let you go. When I tell you I love you, I understand where you’ve been however; I understand you were born to win!

When I tell you I love you, it means I won’t expose and belittle you when I don’t understand you. I won’t discuss your flaws or pains with anyone else, maximizing the pain, instead of deteriorating it. When I tell you I love you – I support you, I don’t need to control you.

When I tell you I love you – I will be the best me for you, realizing that’s the only way to truly help you. When I tell you I love you, I mean it, I do. When I tell you I love you, sometimes this means I have to leave you. Although I love you, I love me too. If you don’t see the love in me as I do you, then its time for me to leave you, leave you to be you and to find out what love means for you.

When I tell you I love you, I will be patient. I will be kind. I won’t keep any records of your wrongs. I will not be jealous of you nor will I require you to see things my way. My love for you will never be too proud and will never dishonor you in any way. I will never seek my own desires through you. I will not be easily offended or angered by you. I will always rejoice in your truth and in your growth. I will always protect, trust, hope and persevere, not just for me, but also for you. This is what I mean when I tell you I love you.